Alls I'm saying is we tend to sometimes be so narrow-minded about the myriads of different things that go into making somebody into who he is. I'm saying we get so knee-jerk and condescending about rights and perfect fairness and protecting people we don't stop and remember nobody's just a victim and nothing is just negative and just unfair - almost nothing is like that. Alls - how it's possible even the worst things that happen to you can end up being positive factors in who you are.